When the cast of Avengers sits down for an interview, it doesn’t take long for the superhero banter to spill off the screen and into real life. With the big premiere happening right across the street, the actors found themselves fielding a lighthearted but loaded question: Who leads the Avengers in real life?

Robert Downey Jr., forever associated with Tony Stark, was quick to sidestep the “leader” title. “If you say so,” he laughed, deflecting with the same mix of charm and mischief that made Iron Man a fan favorite. Rather than claiming leadership, Downey painted the group dynamic as a rotating mix of responsibilities and personalities.

According to him, Chris Evans (Captain America himself) somehow landed the role of brunch director. “Evans is in charge of brunch,” Downey teased. Not to be outdone, Chris Hemsworth (Thor) chimed in with his own duties: “I’m in charge of Brian,” he quipped mysteriously, leaving the audience in stitches.

Jeremy Renner didn’t escape playful ribbing either. Downey crowned him “Pluto, Lord of the Underworld,” explaining that hanging out with him often feels like venturing into uncharted territory. “He’s definitely up for just about anything,” Downey joked.

But behind the fun, the actors revealed the reality of balancing Hollywood stardom with family life. “Everyone has kids, and for the most part, it doesn’t work,” Downey admitted, noting how parental responsibilities often pull them away from after-hours gatherings. Mark Ruffalo shared a touching moment with his own daughter. After spending too much time away on set, he promised her a break—only to have her innocently ask, “Are we gonna eat?”

In the end, there may be no single “leader” of the Avengers off-screen. Instead, what shines through is a sense of camaraderie, good-natured teasing, and the very human struggles of balancing work, family, and friendship. Much like their on-screen counterparts, the real-life Avengers rely on teamwork—and plenty of humor—to keep their group strong.